Student Tips - 4 Bitter but Real Truth which will Make You Successful

Hey readers, I hope you all are doing good..!

So today I came with a new post which is basically related to students but if you will read this post then you will get to know that these points will help to become a successful person.

So today I will discuss some student tips which include 4 bitter but real truth which will make you successful.

So before starting the topic, I want to share a quote with you all.


Never put yourself in the passenger seat of life. Be the driver do whatever you truly want to if you let your family or the society sit on the driver seat of your life you'll never be satisfied with the destination.

As a school student life is hectic. Between crazy relationships trying to have fun on weekends going to school doing homework and trying to magically get sleep in the midst of it all staying in shape is probably one of the hardest things for college students to do.


Student Tips - 4 Bitter but Real Truth which will Make You Successful


In the game of life if it often seems like you're on the losing end of things you're not alone. Life can be one giant conundrum filled with ups and down.

When you feel like you're experiencing more downs than ups sometimes it helps to get a little tough love once in a while.

That's why I put together 5  Bitter but real truth which can make you successful.



Bad Things Happen to Good People

As a student are facing a lot of problem and suffering is the part of life, but here the cool thing is that it makes us strong. 

How you choose to view the world  its all depend upon you there is a very famous quote:


Laws of nature do not make exceptions for nice people. A bullet has no conscience neither does a malignant tumour or an automobile gone out of control. That is why good people get sick and get hurt as much as anyone.

Yesterday is More Important than Today

Our present circumstances are a reflection of our past decisions. Although we have enormous power to change the trajectory of our lives here and now we are where we are because of our past. Today is tomorrow's yesterday. 

What we do today will either enhance or diminish our future present moments. Most of the students are procrastinator they just put things off until tomorrow. 

We get to have the experiences we long for and then we get to remember and carry those experiences with us forever. The Past, Present, and Future are uniquely important and enjoyable.

Blaming Others gets You Nowhere

It's easy for us, especially for students to blame others. Do any of the following sound familiar?
  • The teacher is too boring. That's why I didn't do well on the test"
  • My parents are too Nagy. That's why I'm always moody"
  • The lesson wasn't engaging. That's why I couldn't pay attention"


These complaints may be valid. But taking full responsibility for your education and your life means that you don't blame other people for how you've been feeling or the disappointments you've been experiencing.

Instead successful students continually ask themselves this vital question: "What is one thing I can do right now to make the situation better?"

Students today face more distractions than ever before. Texting Youtube Facebook Twitter Instagram Blogs Online games and the rest of the internet.


A student must learn to manage their time and their priorities but they must first learn to manage themselves

Accept the Change and Move On

It simply means just come out from your comfort zone yes it's more than difficult for us to come out from our comfort zone.

To be a better person and to move along the path of self-growth takes courage because change is a scary thing.

Changing yourself is especially terrifying because you are so accustomed to who you are now that becoming someone new is like being reborn into a different world. 

Improving yourself whether physically mentally or spiritually is a leap into the unknown one in which the future is unpredictable and the outcome uncertain.

In my last few posts, I have discussed:
You are reading this article because you want to become a better person and to do that you will need to accept the change while frightening is never as scary as stagnation.

Life is change, Life is growth, Life is adapting to new and different circumstances. Whether it happens to you or you make it happen change is inevitable.

But remember this: Misery is safe, Happiness is scary

Take Advice from Unsuccessful People

Might be the above heading sound something different but yes its the harsh truth that unsuccessful people give you better advice than anyone because they know where they fail ...here are three points after reading the points you will get to know why I say these things...

First off you have to review your definition of successful. What does success mean to you? We all should want to take advice from people we consider successful.

But would you take advice from someone that is unsuccessful?

I believe you should and let me tell you why?

3Reasons you should take advice from unsuccessful people:



They can show you what not to Do!

Unsuccessful people usually have habits that they do record these habits and do the opposite don't study unsuccessful behavior but understand it and do better.

They can tell you what to Do

Most people that are unsuccessful can pinpoint where they went wrong or why they didn't succeed in an area this is great take note of these pitfalls they share with you and make it your mission to watch out for those pitfalls on your journey to success.


They mean Well

When unsuccessful people give unsolicited advice they mean well and are trying to make sure that you do better than them and not following in their unsuccessful footsteps.

By sharing their failures they are hoping it will bring you success. So never underestimate the advice of that person who is unsuccessful.

They can be an asset to your success they can share with you one gem that could change your whole life.


Remember we can all learn something from anybody we come in contact with. Child, Elder or Peer has someone unsuccessful ever tried to give you advice? Do you prefer taking advice from those who are successful or Unsuccessful? Does it matter to you?

So don’t be so quick to write off or dismiss advice from someone unsuccessful. They can be an asset to your success, they can share with you one gem that could change your whole life.

Remember we can all learn something from anybody we come in contact with. Child, Elder or Peer.
Has someone unsuccessful ever tried to give you advice?

Do you prefer taking advice from those who are successful or unsuccessful? Does it matter to you?



Before ending this post I want to write few experiences of mine in few points just correct me in the comment section if I m wrong  :
  • Never allow someone occupies your mental space. Your mental space should be your first priority.
  • Never take interest in someone else's life. Your entire focus should be on yourself and your growth.
  • Never listen to people who haven't done something you want to do in their lives apart from your loved ones.
  • Never let people treat you like an option Never.
  • Never make someone fall in love if you don't plan to spend the rest of your life with them. The most difficult feeling in this world is to unloved someone you once loved.
What do you think? Do you agree with these 4 truths which makes you successful? Do they provide the foundation for being a better person as has been suggested?

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Karoly Takacs : The man who Defied Destiny (Inspiring Story & Life Quotes)

Hi everyone ! I hope you all are doing well. So after a long time, I'm back with some experiences regarding life (Inspiring Story of Karoly Takacs) which I want to share with you.


Everything you seek is within you my friend.No matter you are single or not, no matter what everyone says. All you need to do is take a deep breath and continue.

If you want to inspire than see your past life and think about it how you face most difficult situations without any help than you know you are the best motivational speaker. So, believe in yourself and give 100% in every work...!

Many stories you know which help to motivate you.......!

So, I tell this story this help to motivate you......!

Motivation, not a word it is a hope which helps to excite you and also help to do work with love and happiness don't care what other people think about you. Your work means your work don't do work for money do work with love and happiness.


 I bet you will surely get goosebumps. Don't miss this till the end. A real Life story.
Inspiring Story : Karoly Takacs
Source - Amazon

The Inspiring Story of Karoly Takacs


This is a story of 1938, a person named Karloy from the Hungarian Army. He was the best pistol shooter of his country. All the national championships that were held in that country he was the winner of all and everybody was confirmed that in 1940 Olympics he will be the winner.

But as he was in the army so during training a hand grenade exploded in his right hand and his hand was cut down. All his focus dreams were gone. So he decided not to focus on what is gone but to focus on what he has now. The hand with which he could not even wright.

He started training of his left hand and after 1 year he came back in national championships in hungry, no one knew he was training from 1 year. Everyone, there was competing with their best hand he was competing with his only hand and guess what who win- Karloy the man with the only hand. 

He wanted to make his hand worlds best shooting hand. The 1940 Olympics were canceled because of world war he put his all focus on 1944 Olympics but they were also canceled.
Then he prepared for 1948 Olympics he wants there and guesses who wins Karloy 
1952 Olympics he competed and who won the gold medal?  Karoly!!

This is one of the most inspiring stories which motivate me towards my goal.

Some motivational quotes of Karoly


  • It's not about being the best It's about being better than yesterday
  • Winning a gold medal in Olympic is less about the hand, more about the mind. Life is the same as that winning is less about skills more about attitude
  • Life's not about how hard of a hit you can give. It's about how many you can take and still keep moving.


Inspiring Story : Karoly Takacs
Source - Amazon

Now I just want to share two things it's from my life experience.


My inspiration: Stray animals, Daily taunts by family and friends (Taunts must be there in your life without this success can't achieve) Missing cut off by 1 or 2 marks, My partner who always trusted me and kept saying you can do anything I own my success to her.

My Advice: Respect everybody, Practice hard and believe in yourself and always help others.

Buy Book: The Power of Habit: Why we do What we do & How to change

At last, I want to share some points from the above story :


1. Don't be afraid to fail

Because failure will lead you to the solution, if you stay focused and keep failing, you will find a solution all you need is one solution so stay focused for a longer period.


2. Stop listening to people 

Be curious explore things on your own don't come to conclusion before trying. Following people's order may earn you a living but it will not offer you a meaningful life. You will be taking any decision on your own you will have excuses for everything it will breed frustration within you. So don't give your control to someone else's hand.

Inspiring Story : Karoly Takacs
Source - Amazon


3. Money does not determine the quality of your life

The work we do every single day determine the quality of our life, if you are not doing something that brings joy within you and around you then you are wasting your time. It doesn't matter how much you make money, the only thing that matters is how you make money. 


4. Stop Dreaming


Start taking action make plan act on them fail and learn from each failure don't waste time on emotional dramas, we will sure dead one day so before that live the life you want to live. Can't you see all the great people we read books are dead we only remember them because of their work? If you want to be remembered like them then act..


Improvement at anything is based on thousands of tiny failures and the magnitude of your success is based on how many time you've failed at something.If someone is better than you at something then it's likely because he has failed at it more than you have.If someone is worse than you, it's likely because he hasn't been through all of the painful learning experience you have.

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Life Lesson - Why we Meet certain people in life


Life Lesson -Why we meet certain
people in life?


SO readers before moving to the main article give your opinion about this topic.

Meeting people in our life is important but meeting different people is more important that's a thing I will tell you in this post.


"The circumstance and the environment influence our life but we are the ones who are responsible for yourself that you have to control your actions or they will control you."


In this post, I will tell two things :


  • Three Types of people in our life.
  • Why we meet certain people?

We don't mean people by accident they are meant to cross our path. Every single person is born with the unique and valuable gifts to share with the world once we figure out what ours are and decide to live our lives putting them to use that's when and only when the real party begins. Living a life on purpose is available to everyone.

So if you're struggling or settling or completely confused about what you're supposed to do with your life know that the answer is already here. It exists and so does the life you can't wait to create. You just need to get some clarity first.

"Keep in mind there's no right way to go about this. Everyone's journey is Unique but we're all trying to get to the same place-The place where we feel happiest the most alive and the most like ourselves."
Why we meet certain people in life?


Let's Begin:

Three types of people in our life:


Now the question is do you believe? Do you believe that everything happens for a reason? Do you believe that people come into your life because it is destiny?

If you ask me then let me tell you that personally, I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. The question is whether I know the reason or not I believe.


So, guys, there are three types of people in our life. I made a category of the people.  I'm the tree and the people who are with me they are like :
  1. First Category is Leaves.
  2. The second Category is Root.
  3. The third Category is Branch.


So some people will play the role of leaves some will play the role of root and most people play the role of the branch. So be careful about these things.

The tree is made by all these things it's basically three main parts of the tree:


  1. The leaves or for us, the leaves are like a Right person for a right moment.
  2. The branches or for us, the branches are like a Right person for the right time.
  3. The root or for us, the root is like a Right Person Forever.

In our life mostly we found two types of people one is the person who played the role of leaves and other who play the role of branches. There are few who are actually playing the role of roots.

  • The leaves

Those who are leaves they move like a air from our life. They do not spend much time with us they change with the change of season be careful with these leaves. As per my experience, I can say that sometimes these people make the most profound impact because of their presence in our life. That way we can also say that Right Person for the right moment 

  • The Branches

These types of people are the most dangerous people in our life because they pretend that they are the well-wishers of ours but actually they are not. They are stronger than leaves. They will stick around through most seasons but if you go through a storm or two in your life it's possible that you could lose them. They left your friendship or relationship when you need them most so just be careful they come into your life only to give you a burden. In most cases, they can't handle too much weight. Sometimes these type of people are also helpful to you but they more believe to take advantages from you. So be careful about these type of people.

  • The Root People

It's one of the most important people but we are not able to identify these people because they are not like others they don't believe in showing off. They always help you. Like the roots of the tree, they are hard to find because they are not trying to be seen. Their only job is to hold you up and help you live a strong and healthy life.
They are ones who support us throughout. They come to build your emotional foundation. Love even those who don't.They teach you how important it is to be loved and to love.

Just as a tree has many limbs and many leaves there are few roots.
Look at your own life. How many leaves, Branches, and Roots do you have?
I know most of the people have the richness of Branches and Leaves in their life
Share your experience about that...


THANK GOD FOR THE ROOTS!

"I fall I rise I make mistakes I live I learn. I've been Hurt,but I'm alive I'm Human. I'm not perfect,but I'm thankful."


Part 2nd :

Now the question of why people come into your life. Here are three solid reasons that people come into your life:

  1. Season
  2. Reason
  3. Lifetime 

  • When you know which one it is you will know what to do with that person...
The people who come for a reason will always have their own purpose of coming into your life they mingle with you educate you and also help you to grow in certain ways. But these kinds of people always detaches very soon. You should always enjoy with them till the period they are with you and let them go when it's their time to leave.

Why we meet certain people in life?

People who come for a season they go like seasons. But the feeling of happiness and prosperity is experienced with these kinds of people. But unlike the people with reason, these people are the one because of whom you get more exposed in life.
The third and most important category of people that you come across are the people who remain with you for a lifetime. You always are emotionally attached to them. These are the people you build your foundation with. And these are the people in whom you invest your energy, time and other resources. These include your relationship, family and even some friends.
Someone truly said,
"Love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant"
Having the same people throughout your life leads to saturation and stops human growth. And this completely explains why people coming and going is not wrong. So always make a wise choice about who plays what role in your life and who has come for what period in your life.

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25+ Best Women Empowerment (Strength) Quotes of 2018 [with Images]


According to Wikipedia, Women's empowerment is the process in which women elaborate and recreate what it is that they can be, do, and accomplish in a circumstance that they previously were denied.

Today I am here to share with you my best hand-picked 25+ women empowerment quotes. These women strengthen quotes helps you being empowered.

25+ Best Women Strength (Empowerment) Quotes



1. A strong woman is a woman determined to do something others are determined not to be done. —Marge Piercy

Best Women Empowerment (Strength) Quotes of 2018


2. The strength of woman comes from the fact that the psychology cannot explain us, men can be analyzed, women merely adored. -Oscar Wilde  

Best Women Empowerment (Strength) Quotes of 2018



3.  Women hold up half the sky. -Chinese Proverb

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4. My strength did not come from lifting weights. My strength comes from lifting myself up when I was knocked down. -Bob Moore


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5. A Woman with a voice is, by definition, a strong woman. -Melinda Gates
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6. If a woman can go to the beach and wear nothing, then why can’t she also wear everything? – Malala Yousafzai
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7.  She was unstoppable, not because she did not have failures or doubts but because she continued to despite them. -Beau Taplin
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8. The Question isn't who's going to let me: it's who's going to stop me. -Ayn Rand


9. You get in life what you have the courage to ask for. -Oprah Winfrey 
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10. When women support each other, incredible things happen. -Unknown
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11. Empowered women who reach tough or unconventional positions make choices not sacrifices. -Kiran Bedi 
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12. We realize the importance of our voices only when we are silenced. -Malala Yousafzai


13. Above all, Be the heroine of your life, not the victim. -Nora Ephron
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14. Girls compete with each other. Women empower one another. -Unknown
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15. The empowered woman is powerful beyond measure and beautiful beyond description. -Steve Maraboli 
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16.  There is no limit to what we as a woman can accomplish. -Michelle Obama
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17. For us to grow, Our willpower must triumph over our everyday mindset and our fear of change. -Francesa de Prisco
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18. The strongest action for a woman is to love herself, be herself and shine among those who never believed she could -Unknown
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19. The perfect woman, you see is a working woman, not an idler, not a fine lady, but one who uses her hand and her head & her heart for the good of others. -Thomas Hardy
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20. Trust yourself. Think for yourself. Act for yourself. Speak for yourself. Be yourself. Imitation is suicide. - Marva Collins
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21. I raise up my voice : not so I can shout but so that those without a voice can be heard - Malala Yousafzai 
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22.  When there are no ceilings, the sky’s the limit. So let’s keep going let's keep going until every one of the women and girl across the world has the opportunity she deserves to have. —Hillary Clinton
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23.  You are the designer of your destiny; you are the author of your story - Lisa Nichols
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24. A girl should be two things: What and who she wants. -Coco Chanel
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25. It is our choices, that show what we truly are far more than our abilities. -J.K. Rowling
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26. We do not need magic to change the world, we carry all the power we need inside ourselves already, we have the power to imagine better. -J.K. Rowling
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Life Lesson - What did People Learn too late in life?

Are you searching for the life lessons, people learned too late in life? Wanna learn these amazing lessons of life earlier than its too late? Well, you are in the right place. Today I am gonna share with you 7 Life lessons you learned too late in life.

In my last few posts, I have discussed:
Before wasting your valuable time, let's move on to today's topic i.e. What did you learn too late in life?

lessons learned too late in life


So Guys, after taking a deep dive into the ocean of my life experience, I found these pearls:

1. Everything is Temporary


Have you ever heard this line, "Everything is temporary"? Well, that's right. According to Lao Tzu:

“Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them — that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.” — Lao Tzu
What if I told you everything is temporary? What if one day everything is completely different as if you are living another life. Well, it's true because nothing in your life is going to last forever. This may be great news for many and for others is a bad news. But that's life !!

You may have to go through the hard times if you are living a comfortable life today or may not. But everything changes with time. 

My message to you is whether you're facing hard times today or maybe someday, just know that this time will pass too. All you need to do is to stay strong, stay fearless & be positive.

2. Happiness is a Choice


Most unhappy peoples look for happiness in material things. They look at circumstances to be happy. This is so because our cultural conditioning tells us that happiness is something external. We have been told that we ourself are not enough.

But the truth is, you can be happy right now. If you are looking for happiness in material things like a big house, luxury cars or having more money, then you can never be happy because its greediness, not contentment. The more become less every time and so in that way you can never be happy.

You need to find happiness in the present moment. Your joy or happiness is constructed exclusively in light of your choice to be happy—and this might be a standout amongst the most vital life exercises any of us would ever learn.

Check out the amazing video by Success Archive on becoming happy:



3. Complaining Never Makes anything Better


Successful peoples are always optimistic about the future. They never complain. These peoples try to solve others problems. Unsuccessful people complain & successful people think about the complaint & work on solving it. 

Stop complaining. Work hard, make it happen!

Sooner or later you will regret the complains you have about your life. And, according to Garry Vee, "Regret is Poison". Fix it now or regret it later.

Check out this small video on Don't Complain by Jack Ma:


4. Follow your Heart (Passion)


Many people don't do what they really want to do with their life & regret it later. Find out what you really want to be in your life, and then work hard at it.

"Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it."

These are some amazing words by Steve Jobs. Doing what you really believe is great work keeps us filled with meaning and happiness.

I hope you understand, how important is to follow your passion & I don't you to regret it later.

lessons learned too late in life

5. Don't Loose Yourself for Pleasing Others


There are many reasons why some people do people pleasing. One of these reasons is the fear of being rejected or fear of being unloved. Another reason is by pleasing others, we feel superior or better. 

And, sometimes you sacrifice for your own desires & goals for these peoples. That's not good If you really want to be successful in life.

The only person, I want you to please is you. You might have heard the quote:

"If you want to please every one. Go sell ice-cream, Don't be a leader"
You can never grow in life by sacrificing your happiness & desires. Check out this amazing video by Vanessa Van Edwards:


6. Health is Wealth


Another life lesson, what people learn too late in life is "Health is Wealth". Nothing is more valuable than good health.

A man with bad health cannot enjoy the glory of being rich. On the other hand, one with good health enjoys the life. The successful one can work hard and pursue his dreams.

Many people forget about their health while they are too busy in earning money. They regret later for the good health they have missed when they have time.

7. Money Can't Buy You Success


If you measure your success by the business, just by money earned or likes and followers in your social media account. Then your success is very very hollow and very very shallow.

The things that define you as successful exist long before you were becoming successful. The relationship with your family, the health in your body, the ability to see and believe in the unseen, the happiness in your face, defines the true success. 

This is another lesson, life teaches people learn too late in life.



Final Words:


I have discussed 7 life lessons people learn too late in life. I don't want you to regret later for the things that you can learn right now. 

Let me know in the comments, what you feel about this post! 

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