5 Incredibly Effective ways to deal with negative people (Proven Strategies)

Have you ever heard the quote "You are the average of 5 people you spend the most time with."? I bet you have heard it from one out of every five successful guys. It is extremely important to stay away from negative influences as the type of people you hang out with highly impact your own behavior. Well, today I am here at Kamal's Blog to share with you 5 incredibly effective ways to deal with negative people.

Before starting my main topic, let me tell you what negative influences I am talking about. Most of us think that negative influences are Smoking, Drugs, & Alcohol but it's a lot more. According to the book, You Can Win by Shiv Khera negative influences are negative peoples, drugs, alcohol, pornography & profanity are the major negative influences.

5 ways to deal with negative people

If you associate with achievers, you will become one. If you associate with thinkers, you will become one. If you associate with givers, you will become one. And, if you associate with negative people, you will become one. Most of the bad influences come from our own company. Now, it's time to reveal the 5 amazing ways which can help you stay away from negative peoples.

5 Ways to Stay away from Negative Influences (peoples)

In the below points, I have discussed the exact strategy that I have used to stay away from negative peoples. By following the below five points, I have experienced a great self-transformation in my life. So let's discuss each of them.

1. Ignore What they Say!

Yes, ignore what they say. Ignore everything negative comes out of their mouth. Don't let their opinion stop you from doing what you really want. Don't respond to them in the same negative way as you do before. I know what you guys do. Whenever you talk to a negative person, you start responding to them in the same way. But you need to stop doing it if you really want to deal with negative peoples. Next time you met a negative guy, remember this!

2. Don't try to please everyone.

I don't know the key to success but the key to failure is trying to please everyone.
Focus on this amazing quote by Bill Cosby. If you really want to make everyone happy then go sell ice-cream and leave this sh*t here, success is not for you. Success is a lonely journey. If you want to stay away from negative peoples, then you have to stop pleasing them. These may be your relatives, your best friends or your family members.

3. Try spending less time than before

Stop engaging yourself with negative friends. I know every one of us has both negative as well as positive friends. Now it's up to you, where you spend most of your time with. If you spend most of your time with negative peoples, you will most likely to be one. What I suggest you, is to spend less time with negative peoples than you do before.

4. Motivate Yourself: Listen to positivity

This is the most important factor which can help you move to the next level. Invest your quality time in watching motivational videos, reading books & listening to the podcasts rather than gossiping with negative friends. I personally start my day after watching something positive. Some of the best YouTube channels that I recommend you are:
I hope you love this list. Also, visit Instagram account of GaryVee, Mel Robbins & Andy Frisella for daily kick-ass motivation. This step is really beneficial in motivating yourself and to deal with negative peoples.

5. Find those 5 peoples

Do you know?
You are an average of 5 peoples, you like to associate with!
If the 5 people you hang out with are negative then surely the sixth one is you & in a similar way if you surround yourself with 5 highly successful peoples in your field, then again surely the sixth one will be you. Find those 5 highly successful peoples in your field. Stay with them. If you can't meet them physically then at least listen to their podcasts, watch their videos & read their blogs. Trust me it will help you to a great extent. watch this amazing video by Andy Frisella.



Summary

In the above post, I have discussed 5 incredibly effective ways to deal with negative peoples & influencers. The quality of people you hang out with play a major role in your success. Add some positive peoples into your life & remove some negative people from your life. I know it's not easy, but you can do so by following the above points.
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No-Confidence Motion - A dangerous weapon of the opposition party

No-Confidence Motion - A dangerous weapon of the opposition party

Everything you need to know about the Friday's "No-Confidence Motion"

Here's an explainer on the "No-Confidence Motion" and the final result of that motion

"No-Confidence Motion" is a dangerous weapon of the opposition party if he proves the majority against the ruling party.

A most liked and viral image after the "No-Confidence Motion"

Rahul Gandhi - Modi
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After a debate of long 12 hours on Friday. Narendra Modi led NDA defeated the "No-Confidence Motion" in Lok Sabha by 199 votes
Only the electorate of the country can decide his fate and make him set on his chair," Modi said before asking, "What is Hurry?" Gandhi was present in the house when the Prime Minister made the statement.

This is the first "No-Confidence Motion" In 15 years.

The first no-confidence motion faced by the Narendra Modi government on Friday initiated by the Telugu Desam party saw spirited attacks by the opposition and a strong defense mounted by the government with the latter firmly expected to win the final vote.

However, the debate in the Lok Sabha also showed up surprise political alignments with the NDA ally Shiv Sena refusing to participate in the debate or support the government and the neutral Biju Janta Dal abstaining from both debate and voting.


What is No-Confidence Motion?

No- Confidence Motion
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According to the rules of the Indian Parliament, a government must always have majority support in the Lok Sabha in order to remain in power

If a member of the house feels that the government does not enjoy this majority then they can move a "No-Confidence motion" if the motion is accepted then the onus is on the government to defeat the motion in order to prove its majority in the house.

Neither a confidence motion nor a no-confidence motion is mentioned in the Constitution. But Article 75 spells it out that “the council of ministers shall be collectively responsible to the House of the People”. this implies that the majority of Lok Sabha members must support the prime minister and his cabinet.

No-Confidence Motion - Meaning

A no-confidence motion is an attempt, usually by an Opposition party, to get the government of the day to prove its majority on the floor of the House. The motion can only be moved by a member in the Lok Sabha, and, once moved, offers MPs an opportunity to discuss the government’s performance, before voting on whether the ruling party has the “confidence” of the House.

  • Vote- The motion is then put to vote it can be conducted through "Voice Vote", "Division of Vote" or the other mean
  • The government of the day has to resign if the government loses a "Confidence" motion or the "No-Confidence" motion is accepted by the majority
  • There is no time-limit that must be adhered to between two no-confidence motions

 Mr.Modi said, "As I listened to the speeches I realized that the words flew not unknowingly or due to false confidence but from arrogance."

Slamming Congress president Rahul Gandhi surprise hug at the end of his speech. Mr. Modi said it reflects a "Hurry to come in power"

Actually its not about the parties I have seen the most dangerous thing is the Cheif Minister of Andhra Pradesh

War Against AP

While Mr.Modi speech was about the disarray in the Opposition and his government achievements first-time TDP MP Jayadev Galla set the tone for the opposition when he initiated the debate
"It is a war between majority and morality. It is a war between the Modi Regime and Andhra Pradesh. It is a war against discrimination shown by the Modi Regime towards AP. It is a war to honor an act of Parliament and an Assurance made by Prime Minister in Parliament he said...

History of No-Confidence Motion


  • Acharya Kripalani moved the first-ever no-confidence motion on the floor of the Lok Sabha in August 1963, immediately after the disastrous India-China War (Failed)
  • Prime Minister Indira Gandhi faced the most number of No-Confidence motions - 15 times
  • 1993 - Congress wins "No-Confidence" vote moved By CPI
  • 1999 - BJP loses "No-Confidence" vote after Jayalalita withdraws support
  • 2003 - Atal Bihari Vajpayee wins "No-Confidence" vote moved by Congres
  • 2018-  TDP moves "No-Confidence" motion against Modi-led by BJP Government and BJP wins...



Some of the other bill listed for this session


  • The Muslim Women (Protection Of Rights on Marriage) Bill 2017
  • The Whistle Blowers Protection (Amendment) Bill 2015
  • The Transgender Persons (Protection of Rights) Bill 2015
  • The Representation of the People (Amendment) Bill 2017


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Anger Management - Control & Counselling - Life Teaching Lesson

Anger Management - Control & Counselling


Anger or Wrath is an intense emotional response usually involving agitation.



It is an emotional reaction that impacts the body...



Today why I'm telling the word Anger to you because I have a very wonderful story related this..


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The story which will help you in future...





The story of " A Bag Of Nails" 


The life teaching lesson learned by a Young Boy


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There once was a young boy with a very bad temper.

The boy's father wanted to teach him a lesson so he gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper he must hammer a nail into their wooden fence.


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On the first day of this lesson, the little boy had driven 37 nails into the fence.

Over the course of the next few weeks, the little boy began to control his temper so the number of nails that were hammered into the fence dramatically decreased 

It wasn't long before the little boy discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence.

Then the day finally came when the little boy didn't lose his temper even once and he became so proud of himself he couldn't wait to tell his father

Pleased his father suggested that he now pull out one nail for each day that he could hold his temper several weeks went by and the day finally came when the young boy was able to tell his father that all the nails were gone


Very gently the father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence

You have done very well my son he smiled but look at the holes in the fence the fence will never be the same.

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The little boy listened carefully as his father continued to speak :

When you say things in anger they leave permanent scars just like these and no matter how many times you say you're sorry the wounds will still be there


Remember this story and don't be angry because it harms you most because 


Anger causes the utmost destruction than any weapon.


Sorry is the most common word that people often use but remember the scar is never gonna heal.
Control your emotion and anger.


Be silent when you're angry and let your success make the noise.


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Red Fort Adopted - Adopt a Heritage Project

Adopt a Heritage Project - "Apni Darohar Apni Pahachan"


On the occasion of "World Tourism Day" which is celebrated on September 27 annually government of India launched "Adopt a Heritage" project

This project is a key initiative of Ministry Of Tourism in close collaboration with Ministry of Culture and Archeological Survey of India {ASI} to develop the heritage sites/monuments and making them tourist-friendly to enhance the tourism potential and their cultural importance in a planned and phased manner

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