Life Lesson - Why we Meet certain people in life

Life Lesson -Why we meet certain
people in life?

SO readers before moving to the main article give your opinion about this topic.

Meeting people in our life is important but meeting different people is more important that's a thing I will tell you in this post.

"The circumstance and the environment influence our life but we are the ones who are responsible for yourself that you have to control your actions or they will control you."

In this post, I will tell two things :

• Three Types of people in our life.
• Why we meet certain people?

We don't mean people by accident they are meant to cross our path. Every single person is born with the unique and valuable gifts to share with the world once we figure out what ours are and decide to live our lives putting them to use that's when and only when the real party begins. Living a life on purpose is available to everyone.

So if you're struggling or settling or completely confused about what you're supposed to do with your life know that the answer is already here. It exists and so does the life you can't wait to create. You just need to get some clarity first.

"Keep in mind there's no right way to go about this. Everyone's journey is Unique but we're all trying to get to the same place-The place where we feel happiest the most alive and the most like ourselves."

Let's Begin:

Three types of people in our life:

Now the question is do you believe? Do you believe that everything happens for a reason? Do you believe that people come into your life because it is destiny?

If you ask me then let me tell you that personally, I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason. The question is whether I know the reason or not I believe.

So, guys, there are three types of people in our life. I made a category of the people.  I'm the tree and the people who are with me they are like :

1. First Category is Leaves.
2. The second Category is Root.
3. The third Category is Branch.

So some people will play the role of leaves some will play the role of root and most people play the role of the branch. So be careful about these things.

The tree is made by all these things it's basically three main parts of the tree:

1. The leaves or for us, the leaves are like a Right person for a right moment.
2. The branches or for us, the branches are like a Right person for the right time.
3. The root or for us, the root is like a Right Person Forever.

In our life mostly we found two types of people one is the person who played the role of leaves and other who play the role of branches. There are few who are actually playing the role of roots.

• The leaves

Those who are leaves they move like a air from our life. They do not spend much time with us they change with the change of season be careful with these leaves. As per my experience, I can say that sometimes these people make the most profound impact because of their presence in our life. That way we can also say that Right Person for the right moment 

• The Branches

These types of people are the most dangerous people in our life because they pretend that they are the well-wishers of ours but actually they are not. They are stronger than leaves. They will stick around through most seasons but if you go through a storm or two in your life it's possible that you could lose them. They left your friendship or relationship when you need them most so just be careful they come into your life only to give you a burden. In most cases, they can't handle too much weight. Sometimes these type of people are also helpful to you but they more believe to take advantages from you. So be careful about these type of people.

• The Root People

It's one of the most important people but we are not able to identify these people because they are not like others they don't believe in showing off. They always help you. Like the roots of the tree, they are hard to find because they are not trying to be seen. Their only job is to hold you up and help you live a strong and healthy life.

They are ones who support us throughout. They come to build your emotional foundation. Love even those who don't.They teach you how important it is to be loved and to love.

Just as a tree has many limbs and many leaves there are few roots.
Look at your own life. How many leaves, Branches, and Roots do you have?
I know most of the people have the richness of Branches and Leaves in their life
Share your experience about that...

THANK GOD FOR THE ROOTS!

"I fall I rise I make mistakes I live I learn. I've been Hurt,but I'm alive I'm Human. I'm not perfect,but I'm thankful."

Part 2nd :

Now the question of why people come into your life. Here are three solid reasons that people come into your life:

1. Season
2. Reason
3. Lifetime 

• When you know which one it is you will know what to do with that person...

The people who come for a reason will always have their own purpose of coming into your life they mingle with you educate you and also help you to grow in certain ways. But these kinds of people always detaches very soon. You should always enjoy with them till the period they are with you and let them go when it's their time to leave.

People who come for a season they go like seasons. But the feeling of happiness and prosperity is experienced with these kinds of people. But unlike the people with reason, these people are the one because of whom you get more exposed in life.

The third and most important category of people that you come across are the people who remain with you for a lifetime. You always are emotionally attached to them. These are the people you build your foundation with. And these are the people in whom you invest your energy, time and other resources. These include your relationship, family and even some friends.

Someone truly said,

"Love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant"

Having the same people throughout your life leads to saturation and stops human growth. And this completely explains why people coming and going is not wrong. So always make a wise choice about who plays what role in your life and who has come for what period in your life.

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25+ Best Women Empowerment (Strength) Quotes of 2018 [with Images]

According to Wikipedia, Women's empowerment is the process in which women elaborate and recreate what it is that they can be, do, and accomplish in a circumstance that they previously were denied.

Today I am here to share with you my best hand-picked 25+ women empowerment quotes. These women strengthen quotes helps you being empowered.

25+ Best Women Strength (Empowerment) Quotes

1. A strong woman is a woman determined to do something others are determined not to be done. —Marge Piercy

2. The strength of woman comes from the fact that the psychology cannot explain us, men can be analyzed, women merely adored. -Oscar Wilde  

3.  Women hold up half the sky. -Chinese Proverb

4. My strength did not come from lifting weights. My strength comes from lifting myself up when I was knocked down. -Bob Moore

5. A Woman with a voice is, by definition, a strong woman. -Melinda Gates

6. If a woman can go to the beach and wear nothing, then why can’t she also wear everything? – Malala Yousafzai

7.  She was unstoppable, not because she did not have failures or doubts but because she continued to despite them. -Beau Taplin

8. The Question isn't who's going to let me: it's who's going to stop me. -Ayn Rand

9. You get in life what you have the courage to ask for. -Oprah Winfrey 

10. When women support each other, incredible things happen. -Unknown

11. Empowered women who reach tough or unconventional positions make choices not sacrifices. -Kiran Bedi 

12. We realize the importance of our voices only when we are silenced. -Malala Yousafzai

13. Above all, Be the heroine of your life, not the victim. -Nora Ephron

14. Girls compete with each other. Women empower one another. -Unknown

15. The empowered woman is powerful beyond measure and beautiful beyond description. -Steve Maraboli 

16.  There is no limit to what we as a woman can accomplish. -Michelle Obama

17. For us to grow, Our willpower must triumph over our everyday mindset and our fear of change. -Francesa de Prisco

18. The strongest action for a woman is to love herself, be herself and shine among those who never believed she could -Unknown

19. The perfect woman, you see is a working woman, not an idler, not a fine lady, but one who uses her hand and her head & her heart for the good of others. -Thomas Hardy

20. Trust yourself. Think for yourself. Act for yourself. Speak for yourself. Be yourself. Imitation is suicide. - Marva Collins

21. I raise up my voice : not so I can shout but so that those without a voice can be heard - Malala Yousafzai 

22.  When there are no ceilings, the sky’s the limit. So let’s keep going let's keep going until every one of the women and girl across the world has the opportunity she deserves to have. —Hillary Clinton

23.  You are the designer of your destiny; you are the author of your story - Lisa Nichols

24. A girl should be two things: What and who she wants. -Coco Chanel

25. It is our choices, that show what we truly are far more than our abilities. -J.K. Rowling

26. We do not need magic to change the world, we carry all the power we need inside ourselves already, we have the power to imagine better. -J.K. Rowling

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Life Lesson - What did People Learn too late in life?

Are you searching for the life lessons, people learned too late in life? Wanna learn these amazing lessons of life earlier than its too late? Well, you are in the right place. Today I am gonna share with you 7 Life lessons you learned too late in life.

In my last few posts, I have discussed:

• 5 Pieces of Life Changing Advices
• 10 Effective Habits of Highly Successful people

Before wasting your valuable time, let's move on to today's topic i.e. What did you learn too late in life?

So Guys, after taking a deep dive into the ocean of my life experience, I found these pearls:

1. Everything is Temporary

Have you ever heard this line, "Everything is temporary"? Well, that's right. According to Lao Tzu:

“Life is a series of natural and spontaneous changes. Don’t resist them — that only creates sorrow. Let reality be reality. Let things flow naturally forward in whatever way they like.” — Lao Tzu

What if I told you everything is temporary? What if one day everything is completely different as if you are living another life. Well, it's true because nothing in your life is going to last forever. This may be great news for many and for others is a bad news. But that's life !!

You may have to go through the hard times if you are living a comfortable life today or may not. But everything changes with time. 

My message to you is whether you're facing hard times today or maybe someday, just know that this time will pass too. All you need to do is to stay strong, stay fearless & be positive.

2. Happiness is a Choice

Most unhappy peoples look for happiness in material things. They look at circumstances to be happy. This is so because our cultural conditioning tells us that happiness is something external. We have been told that we ourself are not enough.

But the truth is, you can be happy right now. If you are looking for happiness in material things like a big house, luxury cars or having more money, then you can never be happy because its greediness, not contentment. The more become less every time and so in that way you can never be happy.

You need to find happiness in the present moment. Your joy or happiness is constructed exclusively in light of your choice to be happy—and this might be a standout amongst the most vital life exercises any of us would ever learn.

Check out the amazing video by Success Archive on becoming happy:

3. Complaining Never Makes anything Better

Successful peoples are always optimistic about the future. They never complain. These peoples try to solve others problems. Unsuccessful people complain & successful people think about the complaint & work on solving it. 

Stop complaining. Work hard, make it happen!

Sooner or later you will regret the complains you have about your life. And, according to Garry Vee, "Regret is Poison". Fix it now or regret it later.

Check out this small video on Don't Complain by Jack Ma:

4. Follow your Heart (Passion)

Many people don't do what they really want to do with their life & regret it later. Find out what you really want to be in your life, and then work hard at it.

"Your work is going to fill a large part of your life, and the only way to be truly satisfied is to do what you believe is great work. And the only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you haven’t found it yet, keep looking. Don’t settle. As with all matters of the heart, you’ll know when you find it."

These are some amazing words by Steve Jobs. Doing what you really believe is great work keeps us filled with meaning and happiness.

I hope you understand, how important is to follow your passion & I don't you to regret it later.

5. Don't Loose Yourself for Pleasing Others

There are many reasons why some people do people pleasing. One of these reasons is the fear of being rejected or fear of being unloved. Another reason is by pleasing others, we feel superior or better. 

And, sometimes you sacrifice for your own desires & goals for these peoples. That's not good If you really want to be successful in life.

The only person, I want you to please is you. You might have heard the quote:

"If you want to please every one. Go sell ice-cream, Don't be a leader"

You can never grow in life by sacrificing your happiness & desires. Check out this amazing video by Vanessa Van Edwards:

6. Health is Wealth

Another life lesson, what people learn too late in life is "Health is Wealth". Nothing is more valuable than good health.

A man with bad health cannot enjoy the glory of being rich. On the other hand, one with good health enjoys the life. The successful one can work hard and pursue his dreams.

Many people forget about their health while they are too busy in earning money. They regret later for the good health they have missed when they have time.

7. Money Can't Buy You Success

If you measure your success by the business, just by money earned or likes and followers in your social media account. Then your success is very very hollow and very very shallow.

The things that define you as successful exist long before you were becoming successful. The relationship with your family, the health in your body, the ability to see and believe in the unseen, the happiness in your face, defines the true success. 

This is another lesson, life teaches people learn too late in life.

Final Words:

I have discussed 7 life lessons people learn too late in life. I don't want you to regret later for the things that you can learn right now. 

Let me know in the comments, what you feel about this post! 

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5 Pieces of Life Changing Advice (Proven)

5 Pieces of  Life Changing Advice (Proven)

Thanks, readers for giving your love for the Post 10 Effective Habits of Highly Successful people.
So today I'm back with another power bosting post which helps you to transform your life. Today I would like to share 5 Pieces of  Life Changing Advice (Proven) by Guru Gopal Gaur.

• Who is Guru Gopal Gaur 

He's a personal coach, monk, lifestyle & motivational strategist. He's a senior monk at the International Society of Krishna Consciousness. He shares deeper spiritual insights with the world. He has been speaking at various Institutions in India and globally for the past two decades. He worked at Hewlett-Packard for a short period of time and decided to become a monk. He got his degree in Electrical engineering from the College of Engineering Pune. He joined the International Society for Krishna Consciousness Mumbai in 1996. He has guided the employees at many corporate giants like Bank of America, Ford, Macintosh etc. His videos of TEDx events on youtube have been an inspiration to many. He is the author of a few inspirational books such as Revival, Conquest, and Checkmate.

5 Pieces of  Life Changing Advice (Proven)

These 5 Pieces of  Life Changing Advice (Proven)will help you to gain a real knowledge about what actually the life is. It will surely help you to come out from depression and stress. 

So Before starting the 5 Pieces of  Life Changing Advice (Proven)

 I request you all please carry a notepad and pen with you because there I will also tell you some real but harsh truth of life which give you a real lesson... 

So let's Begin the 5 Pieces of  Life Changing Advice (Proven)

1. Increase the standard of life 

The first is to Increase the standard of Living... In today world we think that everything is money for that money we actually forget the real meaning of life. 

Whether you drive a Forks wagon or you drive a Bentley the road remains the same isn't whether you speak on a Samsung or you speak On an iPhone X whoever you're calling remain the same...

It's amazing that for increasing the standard of living we are more focused but on the other hand, we are lacking behind the Standard of Life.

Actually, it's nothing wrong to increase the Standard the Living but yes if you will also give importance to Standard of Life you can achieve your goal easily.

The poorest person in the world is those who are more focused towards money because there's more to life than money and there's way more to life than what money can buy. So if you want to truly know how rich you are?

 Drop the tear and see how many hands come forth to wipe that.

Make the relationship with people not with the money.

2.GO with the Flow

It amazing how many plans we make and isn't it a reality not everyone goes according to our plans we make the plan according to the strength of our mind you do not know about the strategy of your opponent yes you can have a rough idea of her/his plan but actually you both do not know the strategy of each other.

Remember one thing whether it's the game of cricket or game of life everything goes not according to you so go with the flow don't be rigid about what we had decided to learn the change our strategy as per the need of the moment. 

Readers adjust your plan according to the need. Learn a lesson from River Ganga as she emanates from the Himalayan mountains with her plan to move and reach her destination she is not rigid she is extremely flexible as sometimes mountains through challenges in the form of rocks on a path she keeps moving until she reaches her destination whatever challenge comes on your pathway just keep moving 

Never change your goal just change the plan to reach that goal

3. Don't live the life of "I"

"I" is one of the most dangerous words which kills your life. "I" stands for "Expectation". 

when you want to be served you’re dependent on people, they may not serve you when you
want to serve who can stop it when you
want respect people may not respect you
but when you want to give a respect who
can stop you when you want to be loved
you will not be loved but when you want
to give love who can stop you when you
want and charity people may not give you
in charity but when you want to give
charity who can stop you..

Why I'm saying that one actually we have bad habits from our childhood we have grown up like this you only learn to take and everyone has to fulfill my Expectations so due to this we expect a lot from others for us, Due to that "I" our life will be more frustrated.

Remember one thing People don't exist in this world to just fulfill your expectations so just come out from that Blind faith give your life to those who need this 

4. Choose Greatness 

Choice plays a vital role in your life.

Responding to any situation is our choice it is not destiny what I choose is my choice and when I choose it that decides my future destiny this is why they say a man is the maker of his destiny, not situations 
Read Here - Power of Choice 

Attitude whether positive or negative that attitude is choice and when you choose the attitude so that attitude will responsible for your life

Victory is a choice, not a destiny victory comes from your hard work so don't be confused between destiny and choice

5. Find Real Peace

What does the real peace means?

Spirituality is the art of bringing us to that inner calm to that inner peace in our real life with all kinds of difficulties troubles and problems surroundings us. If you ever asked yourself the Question that why always that happened with you just do not get frustrated Here is your Answer of why always me? it will surely help to be calm and maintain your inner peace.  

SUMMARY

I hope you love this article on 5 Pieces Of Life Changing Advice(Proven) will help to understand what actually the life is If you have any confusion or query regarding these above points so feel free to ask.

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10 Effective Habits of Highly Successful people

Hello friends, I hope you all are doing well...

So today I would like to share 10 Effective Habits of Highly Successful people which makes them different from others.

It's funny that we always think successful people have some sort of secret habits and ways of which world knows nothing about. But the most funnier thing is they do all sort of things a normal person should be doing without getting distracted.

What actually all are the effective habits that make these people successful... So let's start the 10 Effective Habits of Highly Successful people.

SUCCESS meaning is different for a different person for some success might be a financial achievement or becoming a millionaire. For the sportsman, its success could be the trophy and the medals...

But for the successful people, the meaning of success is little different which is as:

Success is all about your daily routine how you spend your 86400 seconds it will decide whether you will be a successful person or something else...

Whatever it means to you take a note of these 10 Effective Habits of Highly Successful people which help you to achieve the goals in your life 

So let's Begin 

10 Effective Habits of Highly Successful people 

1. They live the P.O.P Life

What actually the P.O.P means here it means :

P - Plan

O - Organize 

P - Prioritize

Planning, organizing & prioritizing will help you to be more efficient and effective. They will help you reduce stress and allow you more time to do fun things like spending time with family and friends

Do P.O.P Effectively

• Create a to-do list of your daily, weekly and monthly tasks 
• Prioritize high medium low
• Set due dates
• Take action consistently
• Planning such as the night before will help you wake up in the morning with a greater sense of purpose

2. Reading

It is one of the most common habits which I saw in most of the successful people so It's important to note that successful people read. While they also read for pleasure most use their reading habit as a means to gain knowledge or insight

For anyone who needs inspiration about the value and importance of reading look no further than the example of billionaire author J.K Rowling who says :

"Read as much as you possibly can. Nothing will help you as much as reading"

3. They Eat Frog - A lot

Don't take the literal meaning of the above sentence. By frog I mean doing tasks in terms of their highest priority and ticking them off your list one by one the famous American writer Mark Twain once said :

"Eat a live frog first thing in the morning and nothing worse will happen to you rest of the day"

4. Positive Attitude

According to many successful people having a positive attitude is not just a result of being successful it's one of the root causes of success.

Joel Brown refers to gratitude and positive self-talk as priorities in the lives of the ultra-successful. Moreover Brown says it's not enough to express gratitude and a positive attitude you must also remind yourself why you are grateful in order to achieve a deeper effect  

5. Sharing

Whether through donating to charity or the sharing of ideas successful people have a habit of giving they know the value of sharing and most believe their success should result in something more than the accumulation of wealth for themselves.

Some of the most well-known successful people include Bill Gates, Mark Zuckerberg and many more loves sharing.

Lack of wealth does not need to be a factor when it comes to sharing volunteering in your community or at a local school does not cost anything but could provide help where it is a need.

6. They more focus on Self-Improvement and Self-Transformation

Self-Transformation is a process of creating ourselves a new its means examine your daily thoughts and actions and also analyze your behavior.

So before planning for self-transformation, one has to check one's attitude and approach while achieving a goal..No matter our current phase, though, these three rules stay the same

1. Don't expect yourself to be anywhere other than where you accept your current place on the path.
2. Anticipate the very next phase beyond the one you're in so you can be prepared for it when it arrives.
3. Be compassionate and understanding to others regardless of their progress on their own personal journey.

7. They Believe in Death-Bed Mentality

"DEATHBED" Means "In bed and about to die" & "MENTALITY" its a common word for us that means your attitude & way of thinking...

"Work every day like it's your last day" give your 110% to every work do every work with the full intensity of yours...

That the main concept of "DEATHBED MENTALITY"

Always follow this concept in your life is positive always "No matter what happens to you in your life, you alone have to the capacity to choose your response to it.

Deathbed mentality helps you to form the habit of searching for the positive in every circumstance which helps you to a lot in the terms of life by this your life will move into its highest dimensions.

Never judge events as either negative or positive just simply experience that celebrates that & most important thing is to learn a lesson from every event. 

8. They Do Not follow the crowds 

The most successful people have never followed the path of crowds they always make their own path. Even they "Think Differently" by which their thinking create a huge difference between the normal people and the successful people.

9. They train their mind 

As a normal human being we waste our time to train our muscles by which we attracted girls but on the other hand, the successful people train their mind by doing Meditation 
Meditation is the best friend of all the successful people 

10. Sleep Well

The most of the successful people take more hours sleep then us normally they take sleep around 7 to 8 hours. Don't go below five hours a day. Jeff Bezos manages seven hours and Elon Musk does Six.

[BONUS] : They Ignore what people Say

Most of the successful people Ignore the negative feedback which continuously throws by the public about their attitude and their life there is one of the famous lines which I want to share with you that is :

Ignore what they say. Ignore everything negative comes out of their mouth. Don't let their opinion stop you from doing what you really want. Don't respond to them in the same negative way as you do before. I know what you guys do. Whenever you talk to a negative person, you start responding to them in the same way. But you need to stop doing it if you really want to deal with negative peoples. Next time you met a negative guy, remember this!

Conclusion

In this complete post, I have discussed 10 effective habits of highly successful peoples. If you follow the above points, soon you will be successful. Let's summarize all the 10 points:

1. They live the P.O.P Life.
2. They read continuously.
3. Positive Attitude.
4. They Eat Frog.
5. Sharing.
6. They focus on Self Improvement
7. They believe in Deathbed Mentality
8. They do not follow the crowd.
9. They train their brain.
10. Sleep Well.

Bonus: They ignore what people say.

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