5 Incredibly Effective ways to deal with negative people (Proven Strategies)

Have you ever heard the quote "You are the average of 5 people you spend the most time with."? I bet you have heard it from one out of every five successful guys. It is extremely important to stay away from negative influences as the type of people you hang out with highly impact your own behavior. Well, today I am here at Kamal's Blog to share with you 5 incredibly effective ways to deal with negative people.

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Before starting my main topic, let me tell you what negative influences I am talking about. Most of us think that negative influences are Smoking, Drugs, & Alcohol but it's a lot more. According to the book, You Can Win by Shiv Khera negative influences are negative peoples, drugs, alcohol, pornography & profanity are the major negative influences.
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If you associate with achievers, you will become one. If you associate with thinkers, you will become one. If you associate with givers, you will become one. And, if you associate with negative people, you will become one. Most of the bad influences come from our own company. Now, it's time to reveal the 5 amazing ways which can help you stay away from negative peoples.

5 Ways to Stay away from Negative Influences (peoples)

In the below points, I have discussed the exact strategy that I have used to stay away from negative peoples. By following the below five points, I have experienced a great self-transformation in my life. So let's discuss each of them.

1. Ignore What they Say!

Yes, ignore what they say. Ignore everything negative comes out of their mouth. Don't let their opinion stop you from doing what you really want. Don't respond to them in the same negative way as you do before. I know what you guys do. Whenever you talk to a negative person, you start responding to them in the same way. But you need to stop doing it if you really want to deal with negative peoples. Next time you met a negative guy, remember this!

2. Don't try to please everyone.

I don't know the key to success but the key to failure is trying to please everyone.
Focus on this amazing quote by Bill Cosby. If you really want to make everyone happy then go sell ice-cream and leave this sh*t here, success is not for you. Success is a lonely journey. If you want to stay away from negative peoples, then you have to stop pleasing them. These may be your relatives, your best friends or your family members.

3. Try spending less time than before

Stop engaging yourself with negative friends. I know every one of us has both negative as well as positive friends. Now it's up to you, where you spend most of your time with. If you spend most of your time with negative peoples, you will most likely to be one. What I suggest you, is to spend less time with negative peoples than you do before.

4. Motivate Yourself: Listen to positivity

This is the most important factor which can help you move to the next level. Invest your quality time in watching motivational videos, reading books & listening to the podcasts rather than gossiping with negative friends. I personally start my day after watching something positive. Some of the best YouTube channels that I recommend you are:
I hope you love this list. Also, visit Instagram account of GaryVee, Mel Robbins & Andy Frisella for daily kick-ass motivation. This step is really beneficial in motivating yourself and to deal with negative peoples.

5. Find those 5 peoples

Do you know?
You are an average of 5 peoples, you like to associate with!
If the 5 people you hang out with are negative then surely the sixth one is you & in a similar way if you surround yourself with 5 highly successful peoples in your field, then again surely the sixth one will be you. Find those 5 highly successful peoples in your field. Stay with them. If you can't meet them physically then at least listen to their podcasts, watch their videos & read their blogs. Trust me it will help you to a great extent. watch this amazing video by Andy Frisella.



Summary

In the above post, I have discussed 5 incredibly effective ways to deal with negative peoples & influencers. The quality of people you hang out with play a major role in your success. Add some positive peoples into your life & remove some negative people from your life. I know it's not easy, but you can do so by following the above points.
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