5 SuperEasy ways to Get Out of the Friend Zone (That Works)

Once again welcome back to Kamal's Blog. In my last post, I have discussed 5 incredibly effective ways to deal with negative people. Today, I am back with another interesting topic i.e, How to get out of the friend zone? In this post, I will tell you 5 Super easy ways which can help you get out of friend zone.
Before starting my main topic i.e. how to get out of friend zone, let me tell you what friend zone is with a simple example. (Read Carefully)


How to get out of the friend zone?

Here, I am taking an example of a guy (i.e. John) and a girl (i.e. Sophia) who are close friends. After a stage of friendship, John wishes to have a romantic relationship with her friend Sophia. He thinks Sophia also feel same about him, but Sophia doesn't.

In the above example, John is in a friend zone with Sophia.


Friendzone is a situation in which one out of two close friends wishes to enter into a romantic or sexual relationship while other don't.
Friendzone is more common in men than women. So In this complete guide, I will consider a boy to be in the friend zone with a girl.

Let me explain it more clearly with your own example. Suppose you are in the friend zone with a girl (like Sophia). You thought she loves you in the similar way as you do. After a few months of your friendship, you want to be in a romantic relationship with her & when you asked her to be out, she says...

..... "Ohh, I only see you as a friend..!

I think this is the worst feeling anyone can have. The only problem with being in the friend zone is the rejected person feels stuck & hopeless in his life. Another biggest problem with being in the friend zone is that most of the time it leads to the end of the friendship.


How to get out of the friend zone?

The Friendzone Quote :


I've so many friends but I'm still alone.

How to Get Out of the Friend Zone?


Are you in a friend zone? If yes read the below points carefully, & if not then also read this post as it will help you get out of it whenever you face such situations.

1. Accept it (That you're in friend zone)


I don't want you to waste your time thinking that she also loves you as it later leads to more disappointment and hopelessness. The first step is simple, all you need to do is to simply accept that you are in the friend zone with that girl.

Admitting it will help you clear your doubts about her and definitely help you get out of the friend zone.

2. Don't Beg for It (Stay Strong)


Most of the time, I see boys begging for love. But it's not a good way as it only down your self-respect. You have to stay strong in tough situations. 

What I think is you have not done anything wrong. And for it, you have to stay strong. Don't think she is the last girl. Just move on!


3. Raise your Standards (Improve Yourself)


I don't know the reason why she rejected you but self-improvement is always a good trait. Improve yourself, be a better person.

The best way to improve yourself is to improve your physical & mental health. Improve your physical health bu doing workout & your mental health by reading self-help books, watching inspirational videos and by following your passion.


How to get out of the friend zone?
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4. Stop showing Interest on Her ( Let her work hard to get you)


Next, you have to stop showing interest in her. Let her work hard for your attention. This may lead to the next level of your friendship. She may start loving you & may not. In both conditions never forget point 5.

5. Focus on your Goals


Do you think you can only survive by only having a relationship with her or any other girl? The clear answer is NO. 

Never forget, what you really want to be in your life, just because of a girl. It is good to have a relationship but your life goals should be your first priority. Whether you got success in point 4 or not. Just don't kill your dreams.

These are the 5 points, which can help you get out of the friend zone. Let me summarize these 5 points in the conclusion.

Conclusion:


As I have discussed earlier, Friendzone is a hell situation for a rejected person and may lead to disappointment and lack of self-esteem. Following the above 5 points may help you get out of the friend zone.

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36 comments:

  1. You got to focus on your goals no matter what if there’s a man

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    1. Hi Juli, You're right. Goals must be our first priority. Thanks for your comment!

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  2. I really wasnt aware that the friend zone was kinda bad place to be.

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  3. Thanks for this tips but I don't think friend zone are as bad as they are stereotyped. Definition of a relationship will make everything almost right.

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  4. Great tips, I have been married for over 14 years, we are past the friend zone now, lol

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    1. Haha.. Wow, you turn friendzone into a relationship. That's great. Thanks for your comment!

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  5. Friendzone is new word for me. This stage certainly happens. And women are equally affected too. You elaborated with good points.

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    1. Hi Indra, I hope this post helps you understand Friendzone. Thanks for your comment!

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  6. It doesn't matter what number of friends you have but most important thing is how many of them are in regular touch of you.Keep sharing such useful posts.

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    1. Thanks Abhishek for your comment..:)

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  7. I think one must constantly improve, learn and evolve. The rest shall follow, be it relationships, jobs or anything else. And you've covered these points in your article, great post!

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  8. Friendzone. Quite intriguing perspective. Your post would help many who find themselves in this situation as relationships are a matter of mutuality and learning to deal with disappointment is important. Happy to see mediation as a strengthener here too.

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    1. Thanks for your comment. Yes you can try meditation as well.

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  9. I'm not sure that term exists but your points sound convincing

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  10. Honestly, this is one of the healthiest friendzone escape strategies I've seen, focusing on yourself instead of the person you're trying to get with. I'd add that it's important to remember that friendship with that person is worthwhile, and that even though it hurts to have your feelings unrequited having this special person in your life is still a win.

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    1. Yes you are right Madison. Thanks for your comment :)

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  11. If you continue being friends, just maybe you'll get out of the friend zone. You never know. My now husband and I were friends for 5 years before we started dating. We dated 5 days and decided to get married. Two months later we got married and the rest is history! Life is great!

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    1. Wow Tracy, thanks for sharing your experience on my post. That's great.

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  12. Hi Harish! Friendzone is hurtful. Just focus your goal first your the great man that I know! hahahahha!

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    1. Haha.. Thanks Maysz for your comment!

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  13. I like #2, #3, and #5 because I think improving oneself is very important. But, I don't want people t think they self-improving for someone will be a win-win situation. You might have to take #1.

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  14. I totally agree about everything that is written here! One most important thing I can say is that I think everyone MUST KNOW THEIR WORTH.

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  15. Well everyone should have a goal in mind. Being friendzoned is not the end of the world anyways.

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  16. This is a interesting post that both men and women relate. You have pointed out facts. Great job!

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  17. One must value themselves. That's the most attractive trait

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  18. getting stuck in the friend zone can be a sticky one, especially when you have a good friendship with the person and you don't want to make anything awkward.

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  19. Yes, yes and yes,,it can be a very uncomfortable and sometimes painful zone

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    1. Hmm... I think you can relate it. Thanks for your comment!

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