Student Tips - 4 Bitter but Real Truth which will Make You Successful

Hey readers, I hope you all are doing good..!

So today I came with a new post which is basically related to students but if you will read this post then you will get to know that these points will help to become a successful person.

So today I will discuss some student tips which include 4 bitter but real truth which will make you successful.

So before starting the topic, I want to share a quote with you all.


Never put yourself in the passenger seat of life. Be the driver do whatever you truly want to if you let your family or the society sit on the driver seat of your life you'll never be satisfied with the destination.

As a school student life is hectic. Between crazy relationships trying to have fun on weekends going to school doing homework and trying to magically get sleep in the midst of it all staying in shape is probably one of the hardest things for college students to do.


Student Tips - 4 Bitter but Real Truth which will Make You Successful


In the game of life if it often seems like you're on the losing end of things you're not alone. Life can be one giant conundrum filled with ups and down.

When you feel like you're experiencing more downs than ups sometimes it helps to get a little tough love once in a while.

That's why I put together 5  Bitter but real truth which can make you successful.



Bad Things Happen to Good People

As a student are facing a lot of problem and suffering is the part of life, but here the cool thing is that it makes us strong. 

How you choose to view the world  its all depend upon you there is a very famous quote:


Laws of nature do not make exceptions for nice people. A bullet has no conscience neither does a malignant tumour or an automobile gone out of control. That is why good people get sick and get hurt as much as anyone.

Yesterday is More Important than Today

Our present circumstances are a reflection of our past decisions. Although we have enormous power to change the trajectory of our lives here and now we are where we are because of our past. Today is tomorrow's yesterday. 

What we do today will either enhance or diminish our future present moments. Most of the students are procrastinator they just put things off until tomorrow. 

We get to have the experiences we long for and then we get to remember and carry those experiences with us forever. The Past, Present, and Future are uniquely important and enjoyable.

Blaming Others gets You Nowhere

It's easy for us, especially for students to blame others. Do any of the following sound familiar?
  • The teacher is too boring. That's why I didn't do well on the test"
  • My parents are too Nagy. That's why I'm always moody"
  • The lesson wasn't engaging. That's why I couldn't pay attention"


These complaints may be valid. But taking full responsibility for your education and your life means that you don't blame other people for how you've been feeling or the disappointments you've been experiencing.

Instead successful students continually ask themselves this vital question: "What is one thing I can do right now to make the situation better?"

Students today face more distractions than ever before. Texting Youtube Facebook Twitter Instagram Blogs Online games and the rest of the internet.


A student must learn to manage their time and their priorities but they must first learn to manage themselves

Accept the Change and Move On

It simply means just come out from your comfort zone yes it's more than difficult for us to come out from our comfort zone.

To be a better person and to move along the path of self-growth takes courage because change is a scary thing.

Changing yourself is especially terrifying because you are so accustomed to who you are now that becoming someone new is like being reborn into a different world. 

Improving yourself whether physically mentally or spiritually is a leap into the unknown one in which the future is unpredictable and the outcome uncertain.

In my last few posts, I have discussed:
You are reading this article because you want to become a better person and to do that you will need to accept the change while frightening is never as scary as stagnation.

Life is change, Life is growth, Life is adapting to new and different circumstances. Whether it happens to you or you make it happen change is inevitable.

But remember this: Misery is safe, Happiness is scary

Take Advice from Unsuccessful People

Might be the above heading sound something different but yes its the harsh truth that unsuccessful people give you better advice than anyone because they know where they fail ...here are three points after reading the points you will get to know why I say these things...

First off you have to review your definition of successful. What does success mean to you? We all should want to take advice from people we consider successful.

But would you take advice from someone that is unsuccessful?

I believe you should and let me tell you why?

3Reasons you should take advice from unsuccessful people:



They can show you what not to Do!

Unsuccessful people usually have habits that they do record these habits and do the opposite don't study unsuccessful behavior but understand it and do better.

They can tell you what to Do

Most people that are unsuccessful can pinpoint where they went wrong or why they didn't succeed in an area this is great take note of these pitfalls they share with you and make it your mission to watch out for those pitfalls on your journey to success.


They mean Well

When unsuccessful people give unsolicited advice they mean well and are trying to make sure that you do better than them and not following in their unsuccessful footsteps.

By sharing their failures they are hoping it will bring you success. So never underestimate the advice of that person who is unsuccessful.

They can be an asset to your success they can share with you one gem that could change your whole life.


Remember we can all learn something from anybody we come in contact with. Child, Elder or Peer has someone unsuccessful ever tried to give you advice? Do you prefer taking advice from those who are successful or Unsuccessful? Does it matter to you?

So don’t be so quick to write off or dismiss advice from someone unsuccessful. They can be an asset to your success, they can share with you one gem that could change your whole life.

Remember we can all learn something from anybody we come in contact with. Child, Elder or Peer.
Has someone unsuccessful ever tried to give you advice?

Do you prefer taking advice from those who are successful or unsuccessful? Does it matter to you?



Before ending this post I want to write few experiences of mine in few points just correct me in the comment section if I m wrong  :
  • Never allow someone occupies your mental space. Your mental space should be your first priority.
  • Never take interest in someone else's life. Your entire focus should be on yourself and your growth.
  • Never listen to people who haven't done something you want to do in their lives apart from your loved ones.
  • Never let people treat you like an option Never.
  • Never make someone fall in love if you don't plan to spend the rest of your life with them. The most difficult feeling in this world is to unloved someone you once loved.
What do you think? Do you agree with these 4 truths which makes you successful? Do they provide the foundation for being a better person as has been suggested?

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